I think the final lesson in all dissolving relationships is not indifference, or the usual blanket of condemnation of your former partner. Things happen and life must continue. Sometimes, if they're lucky, people move beyond what broke them apart and start over with each other. Most times we settle for our Bibles or our copies of Maxim to keep us warm. It's sad. Although life must continue, there are times, sadness creeps in, you really can't stand still.